Time for an update.
Bought a reman compressor from Ebay, put it in, went to an A/C & Radaitor repair place for a charge. More primative than my autobody friends (no vaccuum), but more knowledge about A/C's. Popped in a charge, and the compressor didn't move. We re-checked fuses, swapped the relay around, still nothing. He went to see if he could jump the low pressure switch, and when he touched the wires, the compressor kicked in. Low and behold, it was a broken wire in the approach to the connector at the switch. One thing that was noticed was that the compressor was slipping and not running at engine pully speed.
He suggested repairing the broken wire issue, then he would finish filling the system and maybe the faulty connection will get the compressor running properly.
Went to a bone-yard, found a Bravada, cut out 18" of the lead wire to the low Pressure switch, and grabbed the switch while I was there, just in case.
Soldered in the 'new' connector and the compressor kicked on right away, without having to play with the wires. The clutch was still slipping.
Went back to the guy, he tossed on the gauges, and with the system topped off, it was still slipping. He recomended that I go back to the old compressor since the problem was not the compressor, but a broken wire. Before putting the old compresor back in, I took a look at the clutch. Removed it and cleaned the rust from both surfaces. Re-assembled and tested it, It pulled in, but wasn't that strong, so I took out the one spacer and tried again. This was now a good, solid, pull and when the pully was turned, the compressor did also. Air gap is tight, around 0.15", but free when not powered up.
Went to switch the compressors, and checked the air gap on the reman. compressor as it sat in the truck, the range was from 0.015 to 0.036", which explained the odd look as it ran, and the fact that it was slipping. Switched them and went back to my friends for a charge, and then it was happy dance time, as it worked!
Returned the reman compressor for a refund, no hassle due to the bad clutch.
All this work for a crappy broken wire, although I guess the clutch needed a little TLC in the near future either way, but what a pain it's been trying to figure this out. I had swapped out the low pressure switch during the trouble shooting process, but the engine was never running then, so when I moved the wire at that time, it never engaged the clutch.
Oh well, lesson learned, and maybe one of you will benifit from my challenge.